Wivelihood

Chicago Shower.

2011-11-30T10:33:00.003-05:00

I was so blessed to have my Mom host a beautiful shower back at home. Now, this was my first shower and I wasn't completely through my 2nd trimester. However, since you're not supposed to fly during your last trimester, the hubby and I had to make an early visit. I do have to say that I had a difficult time registering for gifts so early on. I honestly had no clue what I would need 3 months down the road! But, I did my best!

It was great to visit with family and some old friends. Thanks, Mom, for all your hard work!

Here's some pictures of the Safari-themed shower...

We hadn't yet settled on a name for our lil' guy!

The Brothers

Dad and Mom

The hubby and I

Calling All Moms.

2011-10-17T20:52:00.003-04:00

I have some questions...

First off, what was the best advice you received?

What baby registry item could you or your lil' one not live without?

Were the pre-baby education classes worth it?

What is one thing you wish you would have been told prior to the baby arriving?

Thanks so much for your help!

Any additional advice is, of course, greatly appreciated!!

Baby Bump.

2011-10-13T22:04:00.010-04:00

Well, I have not been great at taking pics on a weekly basis, or really on a monthly basis, for that matter. But, here's a few to give you an idea of what this mom-to-be is looking like these days.

16 weeks

26 weeks

31 weeks

And the Verdict is in...

2011-10-10T18:59:00.005-04:00

It's a Boy!
And he is definitely proud of his goods!!

All along, I thought it was a girl. But, I guess my motherly intuition was a little off.

The Name Game.

2011-09-28T14:54:00.005-04:00

In working with middle and high school students, there are many interactions that one encounters that you can't help but laugh. Our youth group students have demonstrated their excitement for our little one to arrive since we have made the announcement. I have found it funny that the interested students have been the boys. Some boys have offered up free babysitting, while others want to feel the baby kick in my belly. The boys even want to host a man shower for my husband!

Another way they have attempted to be helpful during this process is providing name suggestions. Of course, they all want us to name our kid after them. But, two freshman boys went above and beyond to provide me with a list of names to consider. Now, I am not revealing which names I do or don't prefer. So, please don't take offense if your personal name is reflected on this list or if you were planning to name a child one of these in the future...

-Gertrude
-Ralph
-Bernice
-Ferdinand
-Jesus
-Vicente
-Moehahmed
-Barack
-Sadam
-Marquesse
-Bush
- Gulliver
-Coco
-Jermajesty
-Banjo
-Jeronimo
- Jazz Domino
-Fatima
-Suchi
-Viyat
and last but not least- Sarah

So, what do you think? Any favorites??

Cravings.

2011-09-25T22:07:00.003-04:00

I was aware that it was common for pregnant women to experience weird cravings or sensitivity to smells, and I would always hear funny examples of food items that are generally not paired together , like pickles and ice cream. Plus, I would say it is a common question that I am asked. Once the 2nd trimester began, I craved cold cut sandwiches, specifically Italian subs! Now, I'm generally a turkey and cheese kind of gal, but for some reason, these subs would just hit the spot. Also, I made several trips to Five Below to purchase Laffy Taffys. I ate candy before, but I just needed to have this type!

Ironically, I was not excited about giving up my Coca-Cola, but it was weird how the taste did not bring as much satisfaction as in the past. Other than that, I have not experienced any other cravings out of the ordinary. With regards to smells, the smell of lawn clippings made me so queasy, and I definitely could not pick up my dog's poop! Granted, that's never an easy task, whether you're pregnant or not. Quick story...when I was on a walk with my hubby and Cooper, I attempted to pick up his doodie and literally puked on the neighbor's lawn! Yeah, we just kept walking...not sure what else to do after that! I'm hoping I can handle some of those nasty diapers in the near future.

1st Trimester Blues.

2011-09-21T19:43:00.010-04:00

Seriously, my thought through a majority of the first trimester was "Why would anyone want to do this a second time?" However, I was reassured by many moms that I wouldn't even remember the bad experiences when I'm holding my little one in my arms. Although that was helpful, what I found got me through each day was that I knew there was a potential end to the sickness. Of course, there were those ladies that felt the need to share with me that they were equally as sick throughout their entire pregnancy. Gee...thanks for the encouragement! It's been interesting, to say the least, the stories that certain women choose to share!!

I would have to say my biggest fan throughout this experience has been my sweet dog, Cooper. Well, of course, aside from my loving hubby...:) When I was hugging the toilet early in the morning, Mr. Cooper was right by my side. He became my shadow...everywhere I was, he was right next to me soothing my pain. I've heard that dogs can sense pregnancy, and I would have to say it's true based on my dog's behavior over the past few months. I've enjoyed having him around, but I'm curious to know how he'll adjust once the baby is born. I would love to hear your stories about how your pet adjusted to a new addition in the home.

The Process.

2011-09-20T18:29:00.005-04:00

Okay, so I'll spare you the details about how it all went down. But, I stopped taking birth control pills in the end of December and conceived in March. So, our official due date is

December 6, 2011.

Now, I do have to mention that we are truly grateful for our ability to conceive so quickly. It is never a guarantee, and I am aware that others try and try without any success. So, we definitely feel blessed.

We decided to first share the news with our families. I couldn't keep the secret from my mom, so I ended up just telling her over the phone around 6 or 7 weeks. The little puzzles above give you an idea of how we told my dad, brothers, and sister-in-laws. We told my husband's family at a family party by gathering them together for a picture. My hubby then said, "On 3, say Josh and Kristen are pregnant!" One aunt was like "Yeah right!" since Josh has joked about it before. While the others just looked at each other wondering if it was the truth or not. It was a lot of fun seeing everyone's reactions!

One thing I have recognized is that everyone chooses to document their pregnancy differently, but I've found that doesn't mean that one expectant mom is more or less excited based on the amount one updates on Facebook. Some take weekly baby bump pictures and share it on social media websites, while others keep more of the details to themselves. I found that I haven't been one to remember to take weekly photos or share all the details with everyone...I'm lucky if I take pictures every few weeks to send to my mom who lives out of state. So, I'm hoping by reminiscing the past few months via blogging will help me to not forget the experience and be able to share it with my little one someday.

New Beginnings...

2011-09-19T20:24:00.004-04:00

I started this blog a few years back because I had a LOT of free time on my hands. I just moved to a new town for my husband's job and didn't have a job of my own. I wanted to capture my random thoughts on any given day and thoroughly enjoyed the evolving process. Then, life happened. I got a job, started grad school, and seemed to not have any free time. Ultimately, a blog hiatus was much needed.

Well, I still have a job, have completed all my grad school coursework (minus the practicum and internship), and have jumped into a new phase of life...pregnancy! Initially, I had a 5 year plan from when we got married before I would've thought of having kids. But, last December, it just felt like the right time to start trying for kids. I think my husband was genuinely surprised when I presented my babyhood thoughts since I was even surprising myself. So, the journey began...

As a result, I decided to start blogging again because I LOVE free advice, whether giving or receiving. Plus, I feel as if I have more time to dedicate to it. I am looking forward to documenting this next phase in our lives! It's definitely exciting!

Drive Free. Retire Rich.

2011-02-20T15:54:00.002-05:00

My friend, who is crazy about the Dave Ramsey plan, recently introduced me to the concept of driving free cars for life. I had never heard of such a concept, so I decided to check out this video

Now, I do own "The Total Money Makeover" by Dave Ramsey; however, I have not fully jumped on board. I definitely agree with his concepts, but haven't taken as much action as I should. I also fully support the idea of living debt free. I cannot imagine having such a burden lifted off of my shoulders!

Another great idea that my friend suggested was to go through my house and sell those unused items. You know exactly the things I'm talking about!! You'll likely get more money listing them on Ebay or Craigslist, than selling them at a yard sale or allowing them to collect dust in your house.

Now, the catch is not to go buy more "stuff" to fill your house, but to be proactive with this newly, accumulated money. She mentioned taking the money and opening up an IRA. To be honest, I am ignorant when it comes to investments, but I do know that my husband's job does not offer a 401K. Therefore, we need to be proactive to save for our future. So, I think this is where I am going to start. Yeah, I may only have $100 to open up the IRA, but it is better than nothing, right?!

So, what are your savings and investment secrets? I would LOVE to hear about them...

Apothica Giveaway

2011-02-05T08:14:00.002-05:00

Who doesn't love a giveaway? I'm a little behind in reading blogs, so I figured I'd play a little catch up this morning. Puttin' on the G.R.I.T.S is hosting a giveaway for a $50 gift card to Apothica! I hope I win because I'm definitely interested in purchasing some Bobbi Brown Long-Wear Gel Eyeliner...it's my favorite! If you are interested, don't forget to check it out!

Merry Christmas.

2010-12-25T22:42:00.000-05:00

Christmas.

2010-12-03T23:23:00.003-05:00

3 months...

2010-12-03T22:58:00.010-05:00

Yep, that's how long it's been since I last blogged. A lot has occurred, but I've just been too busy to share. Quick update...I've completed 7 of 12 courses for the master's guidance program I'm in. I cannot wait to be done! It takes up too much time! Plus, my procrastination stresses me out!

Cooper is now 10 months and is super hyper, yet so lovable! No more accidents in the house...Yay!!

After about a year of living in our house, the hubby and I finally hung blinds and curtains in the family room...huge success! Oh, and we bought a new sectional from Costco.

After not going on vacation since our honeymoon, we headed to West Palm Beach, Florida during October. Seriously, probably the best time to visit. It was still warm, but not unbearable.

I just wish I was back in that warm weather! The DC area has gotten colder, but I cannot complain about the mid-40s in December. I'm just happy I'm not getting all that snow that Minnesota has been getting!

On the agenda for the weekend...hang blinds and curtains in the living room, complete my homework, and attend my father-in-law's 50th birthday party at the local rollerskating rink. Yep, you read that correctly. Should be interesting. Oh, and the hubby won't even let me bring my rollerblades!!

Yard Sale Frenzy.

2010-09-04T20:06:00.029-04:00

For those of you who don't know, my hubby and I bought a new house a little less than a year ago. Until this point, I really didn't know that home decor items were so expensive, even if you primarily shop at T.J. Maxx and Marshalls!

So, I obtained a new hobby this summer...Yard Sales! At first, I was a little intimidated about bargaining with people and did several "drive bys." But as time went on, I started to get pretty good at it! I even brought the husband and dog along; however, most of the time they waited patiently in the car for me!

I just wanted to share some of the GREAT deals I was able to get this summer...

Christmas Wreath from Restoration Hardware- $3
I think I'll need to add some pizazz!

Aside from the color, this dresser is a great height and is solid wood!

Dresser- $10
I'm thinking and ivory color w/ an antiqued finish.

Pottery Barn Picture Frame- $2

This little thing is so cute, and it was brand new in the box!

I'm sure you recognize those red clearance stickers!!!
Target Wall Sconces- $2/each
Originally $19.99/each

End Table- $5
I haven't decided what color I'm going to paint it, yet!

Bathroom Light Fixture- $3
Do you know how much these stupid things cost at Lowe's or Home Depot?
I thought it would be perfect for our master bath.

Pottery Barn Tray- $2
I agreed to buy this little beauty before even noticing the sticker on the bottom.
Retail: $69

Pottery Barn Shams (2)- $1
Although my husband doesn't really care for the pattern, I thought I'd put them
in the guest bedroom. Then, he doesn't have to see them!!

Faux flowers- $1
Now, I just need a vase to put them in.

Lamp Bases- $10 (set)
Now, I think I paid a little too much for these, but they originally were asking $10/each!

Baskets (2)- $4

Mosaic Lamp- $3

Glassware (24 pieces)- $5

Tower Fan w/remote- $3

Basket w/hinged lid- $4
This was a perfect size to hold my blankets in my living room!

I also thought of the husband too when I was hitting up the yard sales...

Paintball gun and gear- $10
I took a shot in the dark, but the gun retails for $100.

VT comforter- $5
I wouldn't have normally paid this much for it; however, it was a church rummage sale!

The Perfect Push-up- $1

Total Spent- $76

I had a BLAST this summer! It's funny how I was even willing to give up some sleep on Saturday mornings in order to not miss the deals! I can't wait for the fall sales! Is anyone else as excited as I am about an item they scored at a yard sale?

Mismatched

2010-09-02T22:21:00.003-04:00

So, this is what I found on my feet when I got home from Costco tonight. REALLY???? I simply reached into my shoe basket and put two flip flops on. Who says they have to match? Maybe I'm starting a new trend. Now, I do not recall any pitiful looks I may have received from other customers. My husband didn't even notice! But, I'm sure someone did and thought "She must be having a rough day!"

I guess it's just one of those days.

Giveaway.

2010-06-28T22:13:00.002-04:00

If you are in need of a blog makeover, you need to head on over to A Blue-Eyed Boy Met a Brown-Eyed Girl and enter her giveaway!!!!

1st Major House Project.

2010-06-25T21:19:00.019-04:00

I'm beginning to realize that home projects take a lot of time, not to mention money, especially if you're an amateur! My list is a mile long, but there is only so much you can complete on the weekends. I get home at 5:30 during the week, and the first thing I do NOT want to to is work on a project. Then, I have my homework during the weekend, which usually takes precedent over any projects.

I watch HGTV and long for my home to be one of their shows so ALL the projects can be completed in the span of a 3 day weekend!!! But, we all know, that is so not realistic!
Besides painting, I wanted to update what "project" we've been working on. We've been slowly working on our kitchen and have been making some progress. We decided to strip the white paint off our cabinets, sand those suckers down, and re-stain the original cabinets. Let me just say...easier said than done! It was a lot of work, but I think definitely worth it in the end!

Now, the Corian countertops were a GREAT deal! We picked those babies up at Habitat for Humanity ReStore for about $350 and had to find a countertop guy to cut, seam and install them. While I'm not going to mention the cost of the labor, mainly because I'm still not sure if we got a good deal or not, the whole project cost about $1200 less than what we were quoted at HD. I think they turned out pretty nice!

{before}

{after}

We bought the hinges on ebay for 2/$1.18 and the handles at Costco for 6/$10.
The faucet also came from Costco for $75 and it has a pull out sprayer.

{you can see that the windowsill has begun it's transformation...}

{before}

{after}

We took the microwave down to work on the cabinets and countertops. Since it hung so low to the stovetop, we can't decide if we want to re-install it or get a smaller one. I think we'd need to move up the cabinets a little bit....

{okay, the coloring of the cabinets is more accurate in the picture below...I'm still learning how to use the camera!!}

Now, it's time to paint, strip the window, work on a backsplash, and ditch the fluorescent lighting mounted underneath the cabinets, above the sink, and on the ceiling! Not too much more to do, right? YEAH RIGHT! Hopefully it'll be done by Christmas!

Free Time.

2010-05-20T22:02:00.005-04:00

I finished my homework early tonight...
the hubby is at softball...
I made some banana bread...
now I'm just looking to relax...
and maybe get caught up on some magazines!

Unfortunately, I was a little overwhelmed when I noticed
just how many the backlog included...

where do I start?

Do I move in chronological order or pick the ones that look the best?

Does anyone else have this problem?

My husband gives me a hard time because
all of the magazines are stacked around the house
since the magazine rack is too small to hold my loot!
I'm not that bad, right?!

Hey, I've got a little secret for you...
Look what I found!
A certain someone also has a stash!

$7.25

2010-04-20T21:08:00.008-04:00

First off, do you call them yard or garage sales? Growing up, I referred to them as garage sales only because there weren't many houses around my neighborhood that didn't have garages. Typically, you set up tables inside your garage. But, here in Northern Virginia, everyone refers to them as yard sales. I've been introduced to the tarp...you just lay all of your belongings on tarps in your front yard. Kind of interesting...so, I thought I'd share some of the great deals I found last weekend.

Aren't these pots the coolest colors? They're so bright!

Apparently, these are tiny planting pots to start the growing process...
I don't really grow things, but these are too cute to not try!

A nice country decoration...I'm thinking a candle in the center.
I'm sure I can find a place for it since it only was a quarter!

This painting will fit perfectly on the turquoise wall in our bedroom.

This was probably one of the best deals...
the 3 shelves and 2 shutters were in a box for only $2!
Not sure if I'll use the shutters, but I'm thinking about staining the shelves.

This basket was only 50 cents...and little did I know...
the price tag indicated it was Pottery Barn.

Geez...I just love good deals! Can't wait for the weekend!

2010-03-31T22:19:00.004-04:00

If in our hearts,

we're not moved by the suffering of others,

then nothing will really change...

real change happens in the heart.

Melvin Mcleod

2010-03-29T21:13:00.004-04:00

Dear Procrastination,

I have been dealing with you for some time now, and I can't seem to get rid of you! You cause unnecessary stress that I definitely do NOT need! You disrupt my seemingly carefree life! I purchase calendars and make to-do lists. But, to no avail, none of these strategies can combat your trance. I always start off with great intentions, yet you seem to creep your way back in. Even though I do not want you around...I don't ask you to leave. The problem is...I know better!! How long will you disrupt my life? Will I ever be free from your control?

Procrastination...you are the bane of my existence. I will never give up! I will conquer you!

Sincerely,

Undefeated

Lately...

2010-03-11T22:22:00.000-05:00

I've been hangin' with Mr. Cooper!

Have I Been Scammed?

2010-03-01T20:02:00.004-05:00

I finally gave in to the hubby...I agreed to get a dog. Not only has he been sending me links at work on a daily basis of super cute boxer puppies, but he also makes me feel guilty that I haven't let him get one yet. You have to understand...I was not raised with animals...so I'm not an animal lover or hater...I just needed some time to get used to the fact of taking care of something that eats, drools, possibly chews on valuables, and uses the bathroom on a frequent basis! The hubby on the other hand is a complete dog lover! He views dogs as lifelong companions that bring extreme joy to your life! I'm hoping I'm won over!

Now, here's my dilemma...we ordered a dog online. He lives in Kansas, and we had to buy a ticket to transport him here. The hubby had to wire money via Western Union to an international address...which I suppose if it's a scam, I'm glad we didn't enter our bank account or credit card info! So, now we just wait and hope that the little guy exists and gets delivered!

Has anyone else gone through the same process of buying a pet online? I want to hear your good and bad stories...of course...more of the good please!!

Update:

Okay, so we were scammed...but luckily we only lost a couple hundred dollars! The classified site was legitimate; however, the seller was not. As we researched further (which should have happened more beforehand), we found out you are NEVER supposed to send money to anyone you don't know via Western Union because you are not covered by fraud protection! But, I thought it was better for the scam artists not to have our bank account information, though. I guess you live and learn. Honestly, it is not that uncommon for people to buy dogs online...unfortunately, we picked the wrong little pup! Luckily, we were able to find another little brindle boxer pup locally. We picked him up this week, and we named him Cooper!

Thank You.

2010-03-01T19:05:00.002-05:00

This post is long overdo...many thanks to Rachel @ In No Simple Life for hosting a giveaway for her 2 year Blogiversary and picking me!

This wristlet and many other ones can be viewed at the Jimmy Pickles Etsy Shop! Isn't it super cute?!

You should definitely check out In No Simple Life and Jimmy Pickles.

Thanks again, Rachel!

My American Idol Pick.

2010-02-17T21:59:00.007-05:00

V-day.

2010-02-11T19:40:00.004-05:00

Valentine's Day is right around the corner...and it hasn't phased me. Is that wrong being a married woman? I kind of just view it as another day of the week. For those of you that are married, did the sappy holidays like V-Day or Sweetest Day fade into the distance and become not as important anymore once you tied the knot? I mean, I don't really expect to receive a whole lot...like chocolates, stuffed animals, etc...and not because the hubby isn't loving and caring, either! I'd rather he just save "our" money for something we both can enjoy, like something for our new house!

When the hubby and I first started dating, I believe we celebrated monthly anniversaries and always "did" something for V-day. But, I can't recall what we've done for such holidays over the last few years. Does that reflect poorly on our relationship? Or, in the grand scheme of things, does it really even matter?

I have noticed that it is easy to become comfortable in your marriage...almost like a routine. It's not that you don't love each other, but you're past the point of "impressing" each other. Almost 3 years into marriage, I'm understanding it takes work to keep the love alive. I would rather go out of my way on a random day of the week and leave a sweet note for my husband, then to get a cheap, red and pink card with a cheesy poem, only because it's V-day! Are you tracking with me?

Now, it is nice to celebrate the holiday with the person you love...I get that. But, I think it has to be something unique...not the cliche dozen roses. My wise, single friend encouraged me to plan a night experiencing something "new" with the hubby! As a couple, I think we may be kind of boring...not to say we don't have beaming personalities that enjoy having a good time laughing a LOT! But, we tend to fall into a routine . We typically go to the same restaurant...or we go to the movies...or we rent a Red Box...or we play games. We don't naturally want to try new things, hence my friend's challenge. She suggested trying a "new" restaurant we have never been and a fun activity we have never tried, like salsa dancing. I definitely said "HECK NO" to the salsa dancing...see, I tend to be B-O-R-I-N-G! I would be afraid that I would look so stupid!

As easy as that sounds, I'm a little nervous! I don't love trying new food...it's nice to have something you know you are definitely going to like and not waste your money. But, I think I have some place in mind. Now, the activity...I have absolutely NO CLUE! Ladies, I need your help...I live in Northern Virginia with access to a variety of activities, so shoot me anything you can think of! I'm running out of time here...well, I don't think we're going to celebrate on actual V-day...so I may have more time than I think!

Anxiously awaiting your suggestions...

{photo credit: Brad Castaneda}

Stir Crazy.

2010-02-09T14:40:00.006-05:00

I'm sure you are all aware of the intense snow that has been hitting the Washington DC metro area over the last week. I have been working from home for the past week and I swear I have sweatpants permanently attached to my body! I'm going crazy...I need to get out! We were hit with 30 inches of snow over the weekend, and the second storm hit us yesterday, which was an additional 10 inches! I grew up in the Chicagoland area and went to school in Minneapolis...and I have NEVER seen a winter this bad! I did not have a clue that I disliked snow SO much!

Here's our house...it almost blends in with all of the snow. HA!

It doesn't like we are going to get mail anytime soon!

Here's the ultimate snow pusher! I think he had a little too much fun on the 4-wheeler!

This snow is probably going to be here until April! I just want my structured life back...is that too much to ask!

Manly Monday.

2010-02-08T19:26:00.003-05:00

Let me put one thing out there before I begin… Jack Bauer is the FREAKING man!

Every Monday night is Jack Bauer night around the Carter household, and he never ceases to amaze me. I never really watched the A-Team or MacGyver, but I bet Jack could whip any of them in a street fight and definitely in an interrogation! Plus, it's one of the few TV shows that I watch that my wife enjoys watching with me!!

I began watching 24 back in college when a friend of mine told me to check it out, so I watched an entire season in a weekend! I was hooked, BAD! During the last two years of college, my roommate and I would have people over to watch and also talk about what kind of “situation” Jack would get himself into that week.

So, if you get a chance and want something to do on a cold winter weeknight, I highly recommend checking out 24! Even if you have been a faithful viewer, go back in time and watch some old seasons. It just might get the fire rekindled!

Until next time...

Josh

22 weeks.

2010-01-28T20:56:00.005-05:00

{Would that be an accurate assessment of my husband's baby belly?}

As I have taken some time off from the blog world and facebook, I have really needed to catch up! While viewing past photo albums and posts of acquaintances, friends, or bloggy friends, I feel that all I've been seeing is baby bellies! Even as I walk down the aisles at my job, babies are in the air!

Am I missing something here? It seems like everyone is pregnant! Okay, maybe not everyone...just a LOT of women! Even young women that are way younger than me and were married a few years after me. I mean, I was their RA in college! I feel like it should be the other way around. Craziness...

Now, there's obviously nothing wrong with being pregnant. I hope to be someday. I actually look forward to the day to stop taking the pill and hopefully lose a few pounds before packing on the baby weight! But, when you see babies everywhere, it's

not necessarily that you feel pressure to get pregnant, or maybe it is pressure...I don't know!

Of course, I want to have kids, except I have a detailed timeline of exactly when that will happen. Now, the hubby would have a kid today, and the mom-in-law would have had a grandkid years ago!! I've been told you just know when you are ready. I sure hope that's the case because it is not something I want to jump into prematurely.

For those of you that are already parents or are expecting, was having a baby something you both decided you were ready for? Or were there mixed feelings?

F-word.

2010-01-20T22:17:00.006-05:00

Are you as concerned about failure as much as I am? Does it dictate how you live your life? Well, check out what Jon from Stuff Christians Like has to say about the F-word! It's some good stuff...

Step It Up.

2010-01-19T20:54:00.003-05:00

Like many of you, the husband and I decided to make a New Year's Resolution to kick the newlywed weight. Okay, so we're technically not newlyweds after almost 3 years. Regardless, we need to kick excess weight. Therefore, we decided to sign up for a year membership at the local rec center. The one condition is that my membership had to include fitness classes I could attend because I can't seem to push myself on the fitness machines.

And that's what I've been doing the past 3 weeks and have been really been enjoying myself. My favorite class is Step Aerobics. My first experience with step was when I took a summer course at a community college for my gym credit. I assumed it would consist of middle age women, and honestly, be kind of boring. Boy, was I wrong...and man has it changed since I last took a class. It's a lot of fun and a LOT of hard work!

Usually, it's important to read the description of classes to know what you're getting into fitness-wise; however, I jumped right in and decided to head to Step Explosion. Long story short, it ended up being an advanced, step class. Let's just say I'm not advanced and haven't been for a long, long time! There were many times when I was facing the wrong way and making eye contact with people. Most know, you should be facing the same way as the entire class. Well, if you don't know the name of the steps that are being called out you get a little behind everyone else. Even though I felt embarrassed, I was completely drenched in sweat. I also decided to kick my pride and attend a second time and a third. I love it so much now! I still mess up, but I tend to not care as much anymore.

In only three weeks, I have noticed so much more energy, a new confidence in my step, being more conscious of what I eat, and my clothes not feeling as tight in certain areas. If working out makes you feel so good, why is it always so difficult to keep up?

{photo credit: via google}

It's a Tough Job...but Someone's Gotta Do It!

2010-01-16T18:50:00.005-05:00

We have beautiful, walnut trim all throughout our house; however, the previous owner decided to do a half-hearted job at priming the kitchen cabinets. On certain parts of the cabinets, the original, stained wood shows through.

The hubby and I could not decide if we wanted to try painting or stripping the cabinets. So, we first bought a few sample cans of espresso paint and polyurethane and began our first DIY project. You can obviously tell which cabinet door has the polyurethane on it.

Well, it ended up looking like cheap, painted wood, which is exactly what it was. Plus, the hubby did not like how shiny the one cabinet door was. Boy, was I glad I only bought a sample size paint.

Our next option was stripping the paint off the cabinets, which appeared like a daunting task after reading so many comments on the internet about the whole process. But, we figured we would rather spend more time and hard work and be happy with the finished product, then to simply choose the easier project.

Here's a picture of the beginning stages of the first kitchen cabinet door. Beware...YOU NEED A MASK, PROTECTIVE EYE WEAR, and GLOVES! Also note, a bandana over your face does not do as great of a job as an actual mask does. I felt a little loopy!

It took several coats of the paint stripper...but I think the cabinets will definitely look better with this option! Of course, there will also be some sanding and staining involved. The end product will take some time, but I think we'll end up being more satisfied with our decision.

I'll be sure to post pictures once the kitchen cabinets are completed.

Who would have ever decide to prime such beautiful wood?

Blessed.

2010-01-12T21:20:00.011-05:00

I started this blog a little over 9 months ago when I had a lot of free time on my hands. I had recently moved to a new city for my husband's job and felt like I lacked purpose. I had recently applied to grad school and my application was cancelled. I applied for many jobs and was not receiving any bites. The "stay at home" wives all had kids to take care of, while I slept in and went shopping to fill a void.

It's crazy how things change. Within 5 months, I was hired for a position that I absolutely LOVE and was able to begin grad school through my work for FREE! My husband and I were able to purchase our very first home!

The WILL of God will never take you where the grace of God will not PROTECT you!

Isn't that the truth? I wish it were easier to remember this while you are in the middle of a storm. Thank you God for always remaining faithful!

With all the chaotic things pulling me in different directions in my life, I have truly missed blogging and the outlet it provides. Therefore, I am going to try my best to blog more and share my life...most importantly...be REAL! Thanks to those who began the ride with me, and I hope you continue the journey alongside me!

Is Anyone Else Excited?

2009-12-07T20:52:00.006-05:00

I am currently watching the Carrie Underwood Christmas special...

Geez...she is absolutely gorgeous!!

And she also has pipes!

I could listen to her sing all night long!

It's crazy to think she got her start on American Idol.

Okay...I'm not gonna lie...I'm a little jealous of the girl...who doesn't want to have hair stylists, make-up artists, and such beautiful outfits!

Great Deal.

2009-11-10T22:33:00.003-05:00

You will never guess what I bought this camera for...well, first here's the story. Each fall, Target places discontinued models of cameras on clearance. Since the Nikon D5000 is out, the Nikon D40 was marked down.

Ladies, I am not a good photographer. I really wish I was. So, I have wanted to buy a SLR in hopes that my photos will look somewhat better.

Okay, back to the purchase. I first saw the camera on sale for $419, marked down from $500. Ummm...that's NOT a great deal. So, I thought I'd give it a few weeks since Target always marks down a few times.

At this point, every time I was running into Target, I was always casually browsing the camera section. I'm sure the employees began to recognize me too! Finally, I see that it was marked down to $350 and since the only one left was the floor model, I was able to get an additional 30% off!!! Yes, you read that correctly...30% OFF! So I was able to get the Nikon D40 for $245! That is definitely half off and a deal I could not pass up! I also bought the 3 year Warranty Target offered for only $29! I love how a great deal makes you smile!

I have enjoyed playing around with the new camera; however, I still don't know exactly what I'm doing. But, I do have to say my photos look 100x better, and I know it'll take me a little practice to learn all of the camera's capabilities.

If anyone owns this camera and has any tips, PLEASE SHARE!

Homeownership.

2009-11-07T18:19:00.004-05:00

This is what has been occupying my time for the last few weeks!

Some wallpaper was worse than others.

Unfortunately, it all had to go!

It has required some hard work, which is tedious and boring!

I know some sweet, old lady selected this paper and was probably so proud of her choices!

It's crazy to see how much home decor has changed!

Now it's on to sanding and priming! Oh, the joys of homeownership!!!

Friday Free-For-All.

2009-10-29T20:25:00.002-04:00

Wow...it has definitely been a long time since I've had the time to blog. It's crazy how busy buying a house, moving, beginning grad school, and working FT will keep you...and I don't even have kids yet! I have to apologize to my followers who I have left hanging...I'll be better at communicating! I really have missed you all.

So, I started Friday Free-For-All a few months ago and the goal is to ask a question that generates discussion...hence the post being all about you guys! Since it's Halloween on Saturday, I thought the question should be related...

What was your favorite/worst Halloween costume you wore?

A Must Have.

2009-10-01T20:34:00.004-04:00

The hubby and I have been busy the last week moving out of the condo we were renting. Boy, do I hate moving...what I despise more is being labeled a "hoarder" from a man! So what if I can't part with stuff from my college years...and what's wrong with having a "yard sale" box? If I can make a dollar, I'm saving it!

Well, our condo had literally white carpet and walls. Come on, are you serious? How do you keep that nice and clean? We did our best...however, life is sometimes messy. So, I thought I'd try the Mr. Clean Magic Eraser to get rid of the scrapes all over the walls. I didn't expect the product to work...man, was I wrong! This brought so much excitement to my night...I enjoyed watching each and every scrape disappear before my eyes! I highly recommend you buy this product!! I only used it on my walls (plus, I'm not sure if it will bleach your colored wall...please test it!), but I know it can be used for many other surfaces. I simply LOVE when products exceed your expectations.

It's Been A While.

2009-09-26T22:02:00.003-04:00

Sorry, I've been MIA...the hubby and I have had a LOT going on! Do you ever feel like you're just going and going and you can't catch your breath? This past week I have had something going on every night...no time for laundry, cooking dinner, watching TV season premiers, and going to bed later than I should be.

Well, we've been going 'round and 'round with this house we put a bid on for the past 2 weeks! The owners are 2 brothers who received the home in an estate transaction. Needless to say, one of the brothers is a lawyer...enough said! Finally, we received a ratified contract yesterday and had the home inspection today. All went well...and our close date is tentatively October 12. I am so relieved this home search process is over! We're super stoked to be homeowners soon!

I'm sure you're wondering a little bit about the house. It's a one story brick rambler built in the 70s. It definitely needs more than a little TLC, but the hubby and I are up for the challenge. I just couldn't buy a cookie-cutter house that lacks character. But, what's great is that this was the neighborhood we really wanted to live in. It's a well-established area that I don't think will depreciate in the future.

The bathrooms are 70s colors...it's hysterical! One is avocado green and the other is harvest yellow! Also, EVERY room has wallpaper from floor to ceiling...I wasn't joking when I mentioned that it needed some work! I'm sure all these projects will be exciting and frustrating at the same time. I'll be sure to take lots of pics...before and after!

Since our lease is up on Wednesday (we're not even close to being done with packing), we've had to come up with some alternative housing and storage arrangements because we won't be able to get into the house for a few more weeks. Even though it's not ideal, we're grateful for the kind families that have offered up their homes to us. I think the important thing is an end in sight.

I'll try and update you on the process, but I apologize in advance if I don't have the opportunity to post often. Well, I will leave you with a snapshot of the work ahead of us...

Manly Monday.

2009-09-21T18:42:00.002-04:00

CALM YOURSELF LADIES!!!

Ok, so I’m not in as good of shape as I was heading into College, I get that. But, why does it seem so difficult for people to understand that you REALLY want to get back into shape? I have been trying to motivate myself to stop eating late and work out more. Let me break it down to you like this… I bought P90X about 3 weeks ago with the intention of getting ripped out of my mind. I’ve been sporadic with it and have missed a couple days here and there. But when I do it I feel AMAZING!

So, today I went out and bought myself a bike, not your ordinary run of the mill type of bike. I bought a really nice road bike for long distance. I was blessed like crazy because the owner of the bike shop is a Christian and apparently likes to give discounts to Pastors! I ended up getting a $700 bike for a tad over $400! I was stoked.

So, here I am asking you to keep me accountable for becoming a lean mean work out/fitness machine. Also, I would love to have my hot wife riding right along side of me during this! I know it’s going to be difficult, and I will probably wreck a few times along the way. I just really want to be a more healthy person for my wife, our future children and my church! Anyone with me on this one? Let’s see how this goes.

Until Next Time,

Josh

Great Magazine Deal.

2009-09-20T09:06:00.003-04:00

For anyone that might be interested in buying a year subscription of In Style magazine for $5, you may want to head over to Amazon.com before it's too late! It's just too great of a deal to pass up!!

Happy Sunday!

Friday Free-For-All.

2009-09-17T18:29:00.005-04:00

Well, Ladies and Gents (if you're reading!), it's that time of the week again. Thank Goodness It's Friday! This week seemed to have dragged on and on...I thought it would never come to an end. But, here we are.

Our church just started a new series called The Bucket List, which challenges you to live each and every day like you are dying. Leaving a legacy after you die is what is most important, regardless of how your house was decorated or how you dressed, even though that is fun for the moment!

So, my question for this weekly edition of Friday Free-For-All is...

IF YOU HAD 30 DAYS TO LIVE, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

(list your top 3 things that come to mind.)

My top 3 things would include:

1. Visiting my family in Illinois- I don't get to see them very often because I live on the East Coast. So, I would definitely want to spend time with the people I love dearly.

2. Make time for other people in my life- Sometimes we get so busy doing all the things we have to get done and neglect to value the wonderful people in our lives.

3. Live to the fullest- If that means talking to strangers, sharing my faith, going skydiving, etc. that's what I'd do!

I challenge you to also create your own "Bucket List." I started mine a few months ago...and it's fully of silly and important things I would love to accomplish before I die. Give it a shot! Let me know what you come up with too because I may to add a few things to my list from your thoughts.

Wishful Wednesday.

2009-09-15T21:12:00.005-04:00

It's that time of the week...Wishful Wednesday.

Head on over to The Seattle Smith's and join in on the fun.

'I wish' .... I could've been KELLY KAPOWSKI!

She was so sweet and likeable!

Not to mention the fact that she dated the one and only Zack Morris!

She had great style, for the 90s that is, and a nice smile!

Her peppy, cheerleader attitude was refreshing.

And her hair was always so long and beautiful!

Anyone with me on this pick?

Two words...ZACK MORRIS!

Oh How I Miss You.

2009-09-15T20:13:00.009-04:00

Before I got married 2 1/2 years ago, I had long hair that I absolutely LOVED!

(Wedding Rehearsal 2007)

Why did I feel the need to chop it off the day I came back from the honeymoon?

I have been wanting my long hair back since that day!

As silly as this sounds, I feel PRETTIER with my long hair!

At this point, I am jealous of every woman that has beautiful, long hair.

Why does it seem to take SO long to grow out again?

Every time I head to the hairdresser for a "trim," it seems to get a little bit shorter.

(The Honeymoon Haircut)

Thank you ladies for having stylists that cause me to envy your hair!

Manly Monday.

2009-09-14T18:00:00.004-04:00

Lane Ends...Please Merge

I know that my last post was about a driving situation, but I just cannot help myself. Today, I was driving in Northern Virginia (where Kristen and I live) and there was a massive amount of road construction. The signs began 3 miles back and I must have been the only one to have seen them because I was getting passed by everyone and their brother (a little game I like to call Pole Position).

The signs read, “Left Lane Ends. Merge Right.” So, I did what any irritated person would do when we started getting closer to the lane ending… I began to ride in both lanes so that people could not pass. Needless to say I was getting the middle finger of fellowship from many drivers and the other ones showed how much they loved me with a blow of their horn.

I didn’t care because they had to get behind me and look at all of my “I Love Jesus” stickers and feel bad about themselves. FYI- I do not have “I Love Jesus” stickers on my car! Although I do love Jesus, I do not feel the need to plaster it all over a nice paint job! So, here is question number one: Do you speed up to try and get a better Pole Position or do you merge as soon as you see the signs? Question number two is this: Would you be one of the great people out there to salute me/blow your horn or would you understand what I was trying to accomplish?

Until Next Time...

Josh

Friday Free-For-All.

2009-09-10T21:35:00.007-04:00

I simply LOVE 4 day weeks because Friday comes so quickly! I haven't even thought of what to do with the hubby this weekend. Speaking of the hubby, isn't he a great Guest Blogger?! You'll have to check his Manly Monday posts...he cracks me up! I also have to give him a shout out for the image he created above...he's been trying to teach himself how to work in Photoshop. I know it's much better than what I would've come up with!

So, on to Friday Free-For-All. If you are new to Wivelihood, I've just begun a weekly post that requires your participation. Otherwise, it is not as much fun. The more the merrier! Feel free to comment on my blog or save the pic and write your own post. I'll get around to figuring out how to use the McLinky thing sometime in the near future.

Okay, let's play...

In honor of our recent holiday and all you wanna-be fashionistas, do you wear WHITE after Labor Day? Why or why not?

Seeing as I don't own any white shoes (besides my Nike shoes), the only white article of clothing I would consider wearing would be some sort of shirt/sweater, which I don't think really applies to this rule. However, since I'm lacking in the style department, could someone please help me out in understanding this L-A-M-E fashion rule?!

Now, it's your turn.

Wishful Wednesday.

2009-09-09T21:48:00.005-04:00

'I wish' .... I could come home to this house every day!

It's nothing fancy...I simply want a house that feels like a home...with a red door of course! I never want my house to feel so stiff that guests feel uncomfortable. I want my house to look "lived in," not a furniture showroom. I can envision that sort of feeling when looking at this home.

Head on over to The Seattle Smiths and play along!

Weekend Update.

2009-09-08T21:10:00.005-04:00

Why oh WHY must I interrupt my sleep schedule? I enjoyed sleeping in for 3 days; however, I managed to feel like absolute TRASH each and every morning. I know you're not supposed to sleep much longer then you do typically...but do I listen...absolutely NOT! Boy, was I tired this morning!!

All in all, I really enjoyed my relaxing weekend. Josh and I did a little bit of shopping and spent a little bit too much money. However, I did score this Fantabulous red pea coat...I can't wait until the weather finally cools off for good. I've been searching for a red coat for a while now, but have been unable to find the right one, until now. I still think it's going to take some time to get used to the belt, though.

I experienced an intense sugar overload this weekend, as well. What can I say...sugar is my weakness...and I enjoyed every minute of it. That is until I recounted the whole weekend on Monday night and was utterly disgusted with myself! Oh well...you can't go back in time!

We also checked out another townhome; however, it was definitely a NO! We are continuing to keep our fingers crossed and most importantly praying for the right house to become available for us. A little over 3 weeks and counting until we don't have a place to live...Yikes!

We also had an unforgettable experience of Frogmore Stew. What's that you might ask? Well, it's potatoes, kielbasa, shrimp, corn on the cob, onions, scallops, clams, etc seasoned with Old Bay and pressure-cooked in large pots. Then, the meal is dumped on your table and you eat with your hands. I attempted to use a fork (not so much for the dirty fingers), which was quickly snapped in half by an observer! It was a LOT of fun!!

I hope you all were able to enjoy the long weekend!!

Manly Monday.

2009-09-06T22:39:00.003-04:00

STOP YELLING!!

"Oh My Gosh, Watch It, Watch It!" Those are just some of the words that are yelled at me while driving with Kristen. Along with the yelling comes a hard stomp on the imaginary brake on the passenger's side floor board. "Kristen, I've got it under control! Besides, that car is like 30 ft. away from us." "I know, but I saw brake lights."

A backseat driver is defined as a vehicle passenger who is not controlling the vehicle and seems to be uncomfortable with the skills of the driver and/or wants to tutor the driver while the driver is at the wheel...AKA my wife!

Now if there is one thing that really drives me crazy, it's when Kristen freaks out while I'm driving. For 10 years, I've had a perfect driving record... that all went away one fateful morning about a month ago when I got caught running a red light. When Kristen would usually say, "You need to slow down." I would always rebuttal with, "Oh stop, I've never had a ticket or been pulled over." So, now she thinks she has a little bit of leverage.

So here's my question to all of the fine young women out there... do you yell and hit the imaginary brake or tightly grip the handle when your boyfriend/fiance/husband is driving? I mean when this happens, my blood pressure rises and my heart about jumps out of my chest. So WHY MUST YOU LADIES DO THESE KIND OF THINGS? I am not implying that all women are "backseat drivers." But, I've had my share of driving experiences w/ some women that freak out!

Until Next Time,

Josh

Success.

2009-09-05T18:14:00.008-04:00

...achievement of an objective/goal; the opposite of failure...

Some people distinguish success differently. A few aim for huge successes, while others are satisfied with achieving something small. I don't always like shooting for the stars because I may wind up easily disappointed. I've discussed failure before and was a bit embarrassed to share; however, I have since experienced a major success and must celebrate...

I used the BROILER and didn't burn the house down!

I know, I know...that doesn't seem like a big deal. But, you don't know just how undomesticated I am...so it's a HUGE success in my book!

How appropriate to celebrate success on my 100th post!!!

I have really enjoyed blogging over the past few months. Thanks to all my interactive blogger friends out there because it makes it so much more exciting. I have learned so much about myself since beginning this little hobby of mine. It's a very easy way to connect with others and feel as if we are truly friends. I can't lie... I talk about some of you to my hubby like we're BFFs! He just laughs at me.

I hope to bring you more fun and exciting posts in the near future. Thanks again for reading and following me along in this journey!

Friday Free-For-All.

2009-09-03T19:58:00.007-04:00

It's FRIDAY...the beginning of the weekend. What's not exciting about that? I love the feeling you get when Friday has arrived...anticipation of what the weekend holds! And everyone feels the same excited emotion about the day too. Friday's a kick-start of what lies ahead...

So, I've decided to dedicate a weekly post to YOU each Friday. Ladies, I want to hear your thoughts, feelings, memories, etc. about stuff. It'll be something different to comment about each week. It may be a fill-in-the-blank sentence, an opinion about the latest celebrity gossip, or accessorizing an outfit. One thing is for sure...it would not be FRIDAY FREE-FOR ALL without a healthy dose of F-U-N!

Anyone wanna play? I love group interaction...so this should be fun.

Ready. Set. Go!

NAME 5 THINGS YOU COULD NOT LIVE WITHOUT.

I'll start it off...

1. My hair straightener- the hair is not the same without it!

2. My make-up bag-I'd be really self-conscious without it!

3. My contacts- seriously, I'm blind and wouldn't be able to see anything!

4. Coca-Cola-needs no explanation.

5. My hubby- saved the best for last. I like him A LOT!

It's your turn now...

Fall TV Schedule

2009-09-02T22:26:00.009-04:00

ANYONE ELSE EXCITED?

Wishful Wednesday.

2009-09-02T19:22:00.003-04:00

Kelsey, over at The Seattle Smith's, has started a mid-week activity called "Wishful Wednesday." Each week will feature a different theme that interested bloggers can participate in. This week is...

'I wish' .... I could go back in time and change one decision I made,

and it would be ____!

...that I would've chosen my words more wisely, instead of haphazardly! In middle and high school, I found it quite enjoyable to be witty and sarcastic. The goal was to get a laugh, regardless of whether it lacked sensitivity. I did get many laughs, but I also received many "looks." I always followed up with a casual, "I'm just kidding." But, in reality, 99.9% of everything we say has some truth to it. Since then, I have begun a very long and hard battle to tame my tongue. I've learned to be more sensitive and not make casual jokes that could potentially hurt someone's feelings. I think sometimes the only way for us to learn is the "hard way." Unfortunately, it hurts other people in the process, as well.

Sorry, to be all Debbie-downer, but you should consider playing along in Wishful Wednesday! And I just realized that I was only supposed to mention a specific decision...oh well!

Happy September.

2009-09-01T20:08:00.014-04:00

Manly Monday Debut.

2009-08-31T20:49:00.002-04:00

How to Survive Wal-Mart

When my wife Kristen and I grace Wal-Mart with our presence I tend to go into Bear Grylls mode of survival. EAT or BE EATEN!

If you follow these simple steps, you too can survive a trip to Wal-Mart:

1) As you enter the parking lot, you must park towards the back. This helps you avoid hitting the millions of people that walk behind you as you try pulling out of your spot and also helps you avoid dings and scratches from carts and other car doors.

2) When entering this "fine establishment," you should always walk directly to the back of the store and make your way to the front. Trust me, this helps avoid direct confrontation when getting into the food aisles.

3) Always map out ahead of time what you need and where it is located in the store... I mean come on, we've all been in Wal-Mart enough times to know where the clothes are and where the food is located. It always amazes me when I see people stopped completely in the middle of an aisle with a look of "Where am I and who are all these people?" written all over their face.

4) For the love of everything that is holy, DO NOT get behind the people that are walking 4-wide with a cart and their family members. You will get total Aisle Anger and start sighing loud enough to where the people look back at you and say "Oh, excuse me." Then, you just smile like nothing was wrong in the first place. Save yourself the hassle and run away when you see this "perfect storm" developing.

5) Always and I mean ALWAYS try to get into the self check out line because there ALWAYS seems to be a communication issue when checking out.

If anyone has other advice as to how survive a trip to Wal-Mart, please feel free to comment.

Until Next Time...

Josh

Surprise Guest.

2009-08-31T20:26:00.004-04:00

Do I have a surprise for you! It's always nice to get a different perspective that's fresh and new. Someone that will be open and honest about anything is hard to find. You will be caught off guard with this guest's uncensored point of view.

Wivelihood is excited to announce the newest addition to its blog family...my hubby Josh! He has graciously accepted my offer to guest post every Monday (of course posting before Monday night FB begins!!). A creative, Manly Monday post will be provided for you to enjoy each and every week.

He's a country boy...a southern gentleman...who loves to hunt and has way too many pairs of shoes and jeans...a bit of an impulsive shopper...loves to play softball and meet new people... knows how to make you laugh...but most importantly values and respects others. He's a breath of fresh air, ladies.

Honestly, I don't know what to expect...so hold on for the ride! Please join me in welcoming... the one and only...my hubby...

JOSH

Weekend Update.

2009-08-30T15:34:00.002-04:00

Wow...I feel like this weekend absolutely FLEW by!! By the time I feel as if I'm beginning to relax and enjoy the weekend, it's Monday already! I think I'd totally dig a 3 day weekend...anyone with me?! I've anxiously been anticipating Labor Day weekend to enjoy an extra day to sleep in and simply relax.

The weekend didn't begin too well. Like most of you know, the hubby and I are house-hunting amidst a crappy housing market. Nonetheless, we are determined to find a place to call our own. A few weeks back, I contacted our landlords to ask if we could possibly rent month to month until we were able to close on a house. So, we don't hear anything for a few weeks. Then, their real estate agent contacts us. Before I get a chance to call him back, the hubby and I decide to check out more rental properties online, just in case. To our surprise, we see the condo we are currently renting up on the site. We assume that this means a big fat NO to the month to month option; however, it would've been nice for our landlords to simply pick up the phone or shoot an email to let us know their decision! Come on...you're supposed to be professional investors...and you don't have the decency to contact us with your decision?! Therefore, we have 1 month remaining in our lease and are a little stressed at the moment. We have to believe that something will work out for us.

Other than that, I feel as if our weekend revolved around food, which isn't necessarily a bad thing! The hubby and I went out a nice dinner on Friday night and then stopped at RedBox...who would ever pay $5 at Blockbuster! Saturday night, some new friends of ours invited us to their place. It's always fun to get to know people better! There house decor was so creative and filled with several photos, which inspired me to take more photos of my life! We capped off the weekend having lunch with the in-laws today. The MIL always saves me her People magazines too, so I have about 3 to catch up on. Not to mention, the weather was FABULOUS all weekend long...it felt that much closer to fall...Yeah!

I do know one thing: I drank WAY TOO MUCH soda and ate too much dessert this weekend! My body is definitely crying out for a workout...maybe I should listen!

Big Mistake.

2009-08-29T09:07:00.003-04:00

The hubby and I decided to stop into JCrew Outlet last night just to "browse." Well, that was not a good decision. I absolutely fell IN LOVE with a navy blue blazer they had. I tried it on and it looked perfect...aside from the price tag. I definitely do not need a new blazer for $118...my wedding dress wasn't even that much! Does anyone know if JCrew has good sales or coupons or anything to help mark down the lovely blazer I'm eyeing? Wow...she was a beauty!

Manners.

2009-08-27T20:35:00.003-04:00

Growing up, when someone sneezed in my house, you said "Bless you." It was not something you thought twice about...you just did it. So, why do I find it so rude when I sneeze around people and no one says "Bless you?"

Another thing...talking with your mouth full. Now, I am a chatterbox...so if I simply cannot wait to pipe in or share a story, I will at least put my hand over my mouth when I speak. Okay, I suppose, that is still not lady-like...but would you rather see the food I'm currently chomping on while I'm telling my story?

If someone leaves you some space to pull out into traffic or to merge into a lane, you kindly say thank you with a slight wave of the hand. Those that don't do that...I usually say YOU'RE WELCOME loudly in my car.

People just don't say thank you anymore either. You hold a door open, and someone just walks through feeling entitled. The hubby will normally say "You're welcome" quite loudly...it makes me a little awkward, but he loves it!

Men not holding the door for women. This is definitely not a difficult task...so men...JUST DO IT!

Anything else to add to the list?

Blazer.

2009-08-26T21:52:00.006-04:00

I'm very thrifty when it comes to shopping for my wardrobe. I rarely, if ever, buy things full price. I feel like I get more of a rush with the sale, rather than the item! However, when I have been looking for the perfect _____, I am willing to pay full price to get it. But, this is usually a RARE occasion.

I've been looking for the perfect blazer for a while now. I have tried many on, but can't seem to find the right one. I thought I was decided on color (brown), but now I'm not so sure. I'm kind of liking the navy blue, but I second guess that decision because it's not a color I typically pick out. I really like a thin-lined corduroy, but I'm not dead set on it. I do know that I don't prefer velour! Never been a fan...

What's your pick? Oh, and if you've been shopping lately and have come across some cute blazers, please let me know!!!

Structure.

2009-08-25T21:38:00.002-04:00

I need it...I CRAVE it! It makes me more productive. At the end of the day, I can relax because I've been busy all day! Checklists, planners, google calendars...I LOVE them all. They keep me organized and on-task.

I think that is what this little blog needs...some structure! I don't know how it's going to look or if it'll change that much...I just know that I cannot keep trying to pop-out random posts all the time. I struggle being creative; therefore, I overanalyze what to write. I begin asking my hubby, "What should I write about today?" I feel like I have to write, just to write. I don't want it to be that way.

From reading all of your blogs, I've enjoyed the standard, scheduled posts...like Wordless Wednesday or Thankful Thursday. Now, I don't intend to rip off those ideas, but I want to TRY and be creative and come up with my own. I think that will help ease my mind because that is just the way I work...on schedule...on task...with STRUCTURE!

Weekend Update.

2009-08-24T19:42:00.003-04:00

I attended my first NFL game this past weekend...the Steelers vs. Redskins. Even though it was pre-season, I still enjoyed myself. I couldn't believe the prices of the food...I definitely felt robbed! But, I can't complain...we received the tickets for free because a friend at work was able to score us some! She was so sweet to hook us up.

Here's us...not wearing any football gear! Can't you tell we are die-hard fans!!!

Now for some bad news...We found a cozy, older home to bid on...so we bid on it...but then we found out today that we got outbid...and it was way over asking price...so, we did not counter back because it was over our price cap. A-N-N-O-Y-I-N-G!

The housing market is driving me crazy right now! Whoever says it's a buyer's market does not live in Northern VA. I mean, there's plenty of houses available over $40ok, but a couple in their mid-twenties does not have that kind of money! Well, maybe you do, but WE don't. Not to mention all of the short sales that have multiple bids and you have to wait around for 3-4 months. We have a month left in our lease and 3 months for the $8000 credit...I have to believe that there is something out there for us...

Cool Website.

2009-08-21T22:06:00.003-04:00

My brother told me about a cool website the other day...www.zillow.com... like pillow with a Z.

If you are nosey about what your friend's, neighbor's, or even what the mayor's house is worth, simply type in the address and the site produces what they term a "zestimate." I'm not sure how accurate it is, but it's a lot of fun! Check it out!

Warning: Due To The Economy Going Down The Crapper, Entering Your Address Into This Site May Cause A Sudden Rise in Blood Pressure!! Enter At Your Own Risk!

Stumped.

2009-08-20T22:29:00.002-04:00

Since nothing really excited happened this week, I've been struggling with what to blog about. I feel like it shouldn't be forced, but it should just flow naturally. I guess I can share some random occurrences for the week...Let's see...

I've been driving a 60 mile commute with a check-engine light on...that's living on the edge...or just plain stupidity!

I said good-bye to some friends this week...that was sad.

My new straightener came in the mail today!! After much review, I purchased a Sedu and already like that it's lighter than the Chi and it doesn't pull on my hair.

I registered my team for fantasy football!! I've been playing with my girlfriends for like 5 years now...it's something I look forward to every year.

We haven't heard anything about the house we bid on...stupid Bank of America...but we aren't waiting around...we're heading out to look at more houses on Saturday.

We went to a picnic and hung out with some new friends. I like when new people come into your life!

I finally had a much needed "catch up" phone conversation with a good friend.

I hope you all have had an enjoyable week so far. Hopefully, I'll have an action-packed weekend.

R.I.P.

2009-08-17T21:53:00.004-04:00

I have faithfully loved you for the past 3 years. You have been with me every day and have never left my side. I could always count on you to keep me straight. You were hot to the touch, and I loved you for that. I will never forget your red, velvet that kept me safe from harm. Your artistry allowed me to receive many compliments...and for this, I am in debt to you! You began showing signs of distress, but I thought for sure you were tough enough to make it through.

You truly never know how much you love something until it's gone. I don't know what I will do without you, especially when I need you to smooth my bed-head hair in the morning. Even though you must be replaced, I will never forget you. May you rest in peace. Thanks for the memories!

Good-Bye.

2009-08-16T21:51:00.002-04:00

Why are good-byes so tough? There's nothing "good" about them. Someone mentioned tonight that they should be called "bad-byes" or "sad-byes" because it's much more accurate of how one feels about the process.

My head is simply pounding from all of the crying I've done tonight. I was a hot mess because our seniors are leaving us to head to college this week. Although I am so excited for this next step in their journey, it's hard to not be selfish and want them to stay around for a little while longer. It almost feels as if we are sending our own kids off into the real world and hoping that what you've done to guide and direct them has made a lasting impact. I know each one of them will be successful in their own ways, and it'll be so neat to hear the stories of how they are each doing.

If this good-bye was so rough, I can't imagine what it'll feel like when it is actually my own children leaving me! I can empathize a little bit more with how my parents were probably feeling when I left for college. It's funny how when you get older your perspective changes and you don't take things for granted like you once did when you were younger!

New Law Needed In VA.

2009-08-14T19:09:00.004-04:00

My west coast friend informed me the other day that there is a law that states you must pull over to the side of the road if you are holding up more than 3 cars on a 2-lane highway or you are in violation of the law. When I heard this, I wished I lived in Washington state!

Let me explain...my commute to work mostly takes place on back roads, to avoid serious, highway traffic; however, it is not helpful when you get stuck behind a slow driver because it makes your commute feel like it just doubled!!

So, it's Friday, and you naturally expect your commute to be a little bit longer. I get stuck behind Mr. Miata Man! I've never quite understood this car...first, why do men purchase it and second, do men buy it because they think it's "sporty"? Now, I do think it's completely okay for a woman to drive it...they look much more petite and it just "fits" them better.

When I think of sports cars, I assume mostly males having the NEED FOR SPEED! Well, apparently, Mr. Miata Man did not get the memo. He held me up for an extra 15 minutes! Finally, he turns on his signal to make a left-hand turn into a subdivision full of mansions...I think to myself, "YES! It's about time!!" Then, I kind of chuckle thinking to myself, "If he lived in one of those HUGE houses, why would he purchase a Mazda Miata?

Well, as I'm looking into my rearview mirror, I realize he got out of my way so I could pass. I definitely don't think I was following him THAT close...I just wished he would've pulled out of my way sooner!

Ingenious.

2009-08-13T20:47:00.005-04:00

Do you ever see a new, creative idea that's being sold and think, "Why didn't I think of that? I could've totally been rich!" Just some clever idea that's rollin' in the dough. Now, I'm not only referring to informercials.

For example, how many of you thought about how difficult it actually is to walk around the house with a blanket wrapped around you, while still being able to complete simple tasks? Insert the SNUGGIE...stupid looking, yet INGENIOUS!

Or how about that plastic clip that holds your sunglasses on your visor? I bet you that guy has made some cash. Cheap looking, yet INGENIOUS!

I thought that tonight as I was making my first bag of rice in the microwave. Seriously, why had I not tried this sooner?! It's so quick and easy...the rice doesn't come out all wet and sticky...it's perfect! Even the "cool spots" on the side of the bag are super smart...you don't burn your hands when you grab the hot bag of rice...so cool! No pun intended!! It couldn't have been that difficult to invent. Simple, yet INGENIOUS!

What other INGENIOUS items do you wish you created and were making lots of money off of?

Fall, Please Come Soon.

2009-08-11T21:30:00.005-04:00

Okay, I am so over Summer. It has been so hot and muggy lately...I cannot bear another day. I HATE sweating! I've been craving Fall for a couple of weeks now. I am get excited thinking about wearing sweatshirts and sweaters, the leaves changing colors, cooler days, drinking hot chocolate, pumpkins and fall decor, and fall scents (particularly Yankee Candle's Autumn Wreath). The hubby would add hunting to this list, but I'm not a fan. I also love that the fall means it's that much closer to the holidays! So, here's to summer coming to a close and hoping for fall to come early this year!! Is anyone else feeling me here?

Cross Your Fingers.

2009-08-10T21:41:00.002-04:00

The hubby and I put in a bid on a 2 car garage townhome last night. Of course, it's a short sale, which is a tedious process. Fortunately, there's less than 2 weeks before the home goes into foreclosure. I think that's one of the reasons we thought we'd give it a shot because the process has an end in sight. The listing price was $50k less than the most recent appraisal...and since it is already at the top of our price range...we don't think we have the best chance at getting it. We're just trying to not get emotionally attached! Okay, first time home-buyers out there, did you have to catch your breath when you first saw the breakdown of your mortgage? OMG, that number seems ridiculous! I guess it's just the reality of becoming an adult!

It's About That Time...

2009-08-07T17:07:00.003-04:00

...for another Hair Party! Woo-Hoo! It's been a little over 7 weeks since I last had my hair cut and colored...so my hair is definitely in need of some TLC. I think I've decided to go a little darker...I've been itchin' for some fall weather lately, so even though it's still summer, I can pretend it's "almost" fall with a new hair color!

With all the blow drying and flat-ironing I do to my hair, I probably need a little more than a trim...because I'm trying to grow my hair out. I cut about 7 inches off of my hair the day after my honeymoon, which was over 2 years ago! And it is still short...why does it take so long to grow out?!

So, here's to a fun Friday night with friends, hair color, and some much needed pampering!

Got Personality?

2009-08-06T20:20:00.002-04:00

How many of you have taken a personality test? I think I took one while I was taking psych classes in college. But, I definitely don't remember what I was. So, a few of us decided to take the Jung Personality test at work today. Can I just say it is SO much fun to make sense of why you act the way you do! If you get a chance, you've got to do it!

I came out as an ESTJ...which probably makes no sense to you. But, it definitely describes me to a tee. Here's are a few things that describes ESTJs:

Has a clear set of standards and beliefs.
Lives in a world of facts and concrete needs.
Value competence and efficiency, and like to see quick results for their efforts.
Take-charge people.
May be controlling at times.
Naturally step into leadership roles.
Dominant function demands structure and organization.
Not likely to enjoy having to do things w/abstract or theoretical concepts.
Self-confident and aggressive.
Can sometimes be very demanding and critical.
Takes their commitments seriously.
Extremely straight-forward and honest.
May unknowingly hurt people's feelings by applying logic and reason to situations.
Conscientious, practical, realistic, and dependable.
Traditional, and prefer to do things in the established way, rather than venturing into uncharted territory.

Do you relate to any of those statements above? You should click on the link above and give it a whirl. Let me know what you are. For a good description of each of the personality types, click here. Have fun!

Let's Play Some Catch Up.

2009-08-04T20:51:00.008-04:00

I have definitely been M.I.A. since I started my new job. With almost 2 hours of commuting each day, I am simply spent when I get home. It's equally as tough to catch up on all your blogs too when I've missed so many days. I honestly didn't think it would take so much adjusting starting back at work.

Job Update: I'm still in training, but I have really been enjoying myself. I did have a rough afternoon today, though. You know how you expect yourself to catch on to things quickly...well, it just wasn't happening today. I was working with my advisor and honestly just felt so dumb...I couldn't think of anything I had learned the past week. I was so embarrassed and mad at myself. I know, I know...I have to cut myself some slack. But, sometimes, I set too high of expectations on myself.

House Hunting Update: Pretty much non-existent at this point since every home is either pending or a short sale, which I've heard is such a draining process. Hopefully, something will become available this week so we have a few places to look at with our realtor on Saturday.

Blog Award Update: I've been left 2 recent blog awards...honestly, it makes me smile to know other people read my blog. I try to just be honest and not get all caught up in the number of followers, even though it's tough to not compare yourself to other bloggers. Check out these 2 sweet bloggers who I enjoy reading!

Thanks to Lauren at Details from the Dechiros

Thanks to DeDe at Weathering the Storms

I have to tell ten honest things about myself and pass the award on to ten other bloggers! Let's see if I can keep these short...

1. I'm a city girl at heart...grew up in the suburbs of Chicago.

2. I'm a thrifty shopper...I usually NEVER buy anything full price!

3. I'm domestically challenged...not great at cleaning or cooking, but at least I know how to do laundry!!

4. I do not enjoy reading, but I really wish I did!

5. I really want to be a school counselor at the high school level.

6. I am NOT an animal lover.

7. I value my sleep...I must have 8 hours or more or I'm cranky!

8. I LOVE to laugh and make other people laugh.

9. I usually will not go out of the house w/o makeup on.

10. My hubby is my best friend.

Instead of only tagging 10 bloggy friends, consider yourself "tagged" if you took the time to read this long post.

Happy Tuesday.

House Sitting.

2009-07-31T22:04:00.002-04:00

...or is it housesitting...or is that really even a word? Well, that's what the hubby and I are doing for the next 2 weeks. It didn't seem like that long when we agreed, but I think it might be. When I got home from work tonight, I had difficulty knowing what to pack, especially food-wise. I mean, the house is still in the same town, just a little further out.

As we dropped our bags into the bedroom, we recognized there were NO curtains! As I looked further, all the windows are wide open. I was instantly uncomfortable thinking there were creepers staring at me. Even the bathroom has NOTHING over the windows! YIKES! It's probably because I've grown up in the suburbs where you can look out your window and wave hi to your neighbor. I guess I'll just have to adjust. Needless to say, I'm sure we have an interesting few weeks ahead of us.

More Houses Please.

2009-07-29T21:32:00.005-04:00

I'm frustrated...there's no other way to put it. The hubby and I are supposed to put together a list of homes we would like to visit with our realtor by tomorrow...and I have like 2 written down. Most of the listings are pending contracts, which leaves very few active ones to check out. And, of course, the ones we "like" are all pending! Apparently, it is a buyer's market because everything's picked through right now.

It's also stressful to think that we only have 2 months left on our lease, which doesn't leave us much time. Hopefully, some more houses come on the market here soon, so we have a little bit more options. I feel like I should be so excited, but I'm not feeling it right now.

Slightly Style Challenged.

2009-07-27T17:10:00.005-04:00

Since I've begun blogging, I've realized that I lack a crucial creativity gene that prohibits me from being able to decorate a home, or even a wardrobe. I'd label myself a plain jane that likes to be matchy-matchy with everything. For instance, before reading all of your great posts, I would have NEVER considered using mismatched furniture in the same room. I can definitely see how boring and monotonous this can make a room look. Before experimenting with jewelry, I was very content wearing a Gap white t with a nice pair of khakis.

I've also been inspired by your crafty, rehabbing personalities. I've really begun to become intrigued with the art of staining and repurposing pieces in a home. Oh, and I just LOVE all of the thrift shop/yard sale finds. I have even ventured out in some new subscriptions...BHG and Real Simple! Those SO aren't me...but I like the change. Now, let's not get started on my cooking...I KNOW that will take several, several years!

I have admitted to myself that style and decorating are not my forte...therefore, I think this is the reason why I struggle with blogging ideas. I feel that I don't "fit in," which I know is completely lame! So, I think to be true to myself, I have to define myself not by what I'm not, but what I AM! I appreciate those of you sticking with me as I try and find my blog groove.

However, ladies, I need some help in becoming creative! Any simple tips I can start with so I don't become overwhelmed??

First Day of Work & Lost.

2009-07-27T16:51:00.003-04:00

Who doesn't LOVE the first few days of a new job??? Even though training can be a bore, I definitely cannot complain about "working" 9-3!! Suh-Weet! I do believe that normal work hours begin on Wednesday though...so I'll have to enjoy it while I can.

I met so many nice, fun people today. Over half the office is in my age bracket, which means we have a very, young office! Everyone I have talked to has said they really enjoy working there and that it's probably the best job they've ever had! That is simply music to my ears!! Oh, and I found out I can begin taking classes toward my master's after 30 days. I'm excited!

After recapping from this past weekend's lake trip, I forgot to mention a slightly important mishap that occurred. After a day of intense tubing and sandbar v-ball in the water, my hubby notices that he is missing something...yep...that's right...you guessed it...his wedding ring! I know it's not a huge deal, but initially, I was a little bummed. Thankfully, men's wedding bands aren't that expensive to replace! I know one thing though...I would've been in BIG trouble if the roles had been reversed!

Weekend Update.

2009-07-26T15:07:00.003-04:00

So, we had an absolute BLAST at the lake this past weekend, even though my body aches in every place imaginable! I got whipped around like a rag doll on the tube! I can barely move my head from side to side. But, it was worth it. Besides the sunburn I have on my front thighs, which does not feel good rubbing against my clothes, I was able to get a little bit of color. We had perfect weather, enjoyed some fun times, and I left wishing I had my own lake house. Maybe someday...

Well, my mind has been excited about a few things lately:

I start my job tomorrow.

We got pre-approved for buying our first home last week!

We have an appointment with our realtor next weekend to check out a bunch of houses!

The anticipation of football season is quickly approaching...I can't wait for fantasy fb!!

I hope you all were able to enjoy your weekend, and I'm interested to hear what exciting things are filling your mind lately.

P.S. Head on over to A Blue-Eyed Boy Met a Brown-Eyed Girl and check out her giveaway! Plus, you'll enjoy reading her posts!!

Off to the Lake.

2009-07-22T23:04:00.006-04:00

Here's what I'll be doing for the next few days...

...and a little of this...

...resting my head in a pretty little lake house...

(this isn't the actual one...but it is on the same lake!!)

...what a way to kick off the weekend early!!

Hope you all have a fun, relaxing weekend!

Prayer Needed.

2009-07-22T12:13:00.006-04:00

My husband's aunt has battled breast cancer for the past couple of years and has been in the clear for some time now. She went for a regular check-up the other day and was given a good report and was told she wouldn't need to come back in until January.

Then, she received a phone call stating that the doctors didn't like the way her lymph nodes looked and they wanted to remove them. Well, that just takes the wind out of your sails...to think everything is fine one minute...and the next minute that has all changed! This is exactly how the process began 2 years ago...so of course, how does your mind not think that the cancer is back and that she'll have to have the ports put back in and maybe have to go through chemo/radiation again. Her appointment is today to have the lymph nodes removed and then they will have to be biopsied. Please keep our Aunt Susan in your prayers because I know she is really scared right now!!

My husband and I lived a good distance away while she dealt with the cancer. So, we were not there to experience all the times of fear, despair, anger, or any other emotion that comes from fighting cancer. I pray that God uses us to be such a strong support for her, not to mention that he increases our faith! I have to remind myself that doctors, as smart as they are, don't have anything on God. But, yet, as humans, we tend to believe everything they tell us. So, I choose to believe that she is still healed! God is much bigger than this whole situation, and I am so grateful that he is in control.

*****UPDATE*****

The lymph nodes came back benign! Yeah God!

Kids Say the Darndest Things!

2009-07-21T10:00:00.005-04:00

As most of you know, my husband and I work with middle and high school students. Well, Sunday night after youth group, we all went to Friday's for dinner. Most of the time, it's only for the high schoolers because of curfew issues, but we included the middle schoolers since it was summertime. They were stoked! It's so cute to watch them not make eye contact with the server because they're uncomfortable!!

I was sitting with a couple middle schoolers and was helping them decide on what they could get with the money they had and kind of explaining about tax and tip. This little guy, who just finished 5th grade, is flipping through the menu and comments "Oh, I'm 0.59 off." He had a twenty-dollar bill from completing his chores and wanted to get the "steak and shrimp" combo for $20.59. After I chuckled quietly, I explained again to him about tax and tip...and he says, "Uhhhh...I'm not tipping her!" Seriously, he had no concept...it was very cute. His next meal choice was chicken and shrimp which was $5 less, but he still didn't have enough with the coke he already ordered. So, finally, I had to help him decide on a much lower entree that he still would enjoy. I think he ended up picking the petite sirloin steak and later complained that it was only like 6 ounces! Too funny!

Aside from having to tell the middle school boys to please stop it with the spit balls and to stop taking all the mints from up front, we had a fun time!

Earring Crazy.

2009-07-20T10:51:00.006-04:00

I don't know what it is with me, but lately I've been really into buying jewelry. For some reason, I've been only really drawn to earrings. First off, I'm not a great accessorizer (I think I just made a word up! ha!), so I know I've needed to step it up. I've been looking at more necklaces, but half the time I think "It doesn't look like me!" Bracelets...those are definitely out for me. So, I've been staying within my comfort zone with earrings...I've just gone for more bold looks...at least I think they are. Here's a few I picked up at Express this past weekend. If you notice, I also buy the same color...not the shiny silver, but the dulled, almost black look. I've got to do something with myself. I may need to sign myself up for What Not To Wear so I can change up my style, or lack thereof!!

Express Beaded Twisted Teardrop Earrings

Express Medallion Scroll Earrings

What can you just not get enough of lately?

Weekend Update.

2009-07-20T10:27:00.006-04:00

I hope you all had an enjoyable weekend. Mine was pretty eventful. It began on Friday preparing for the youth event we were hosting that evening. Aside from filling 1000+ water balloons (my fingers were killing me...I did have some help though!!), we had an enjoyable game of Prison Break. The objective is to successfully get your whole team to "Freedom," where a treasure chest of over $500 of sponsorships was their prize. Teams showed up looking fierce, were distracted by decoy "Freedom" (which included many students trudging through a swampy, pond...Yuck!), received thorn pricks and allergic reactions to the fields they were crawling through, and all in all had a successful night with over 100 students showing up. Why didn't my youth group have fun games like this when I was in high school????

Since Friday was a late night, the hubby and I enjoyed sleeping in a little bit. We then headed to the 12 yr old state softball tourney our town was hosting. I was never much into sports, but I wish I would've. Those girls were having so much fun...and the cheers...and the cute uniforms...I think I would've enjoyed playing! The team we watched was unfortunately playing a team 2x in size and strength...so it didn't end well. But, they were still able to continue on in the tourney.

Lunch of course on Saturday afternoon was catered by none other than Chik-fila. I really do enjoy that place! I wish we'd get one closer to us, instead of having to drive to the mall to get it because that just creates unnecessary temptation! Since so many of you post about it, I have also been craving a strawberry limeade from Sonic lately. The closest one is 45 minutes away...that's not a quick little ride, but I might just have to make it here soon!

Saturday night was capped off with a late night swim with some of our students. We saw them a LOT this weekend...but we love it!

Here's hoping for a great week since it's my last time of freedom before I begin my job next week.

Sale.

2009-07-19T12:49:00.004-04:00

So, you're gearing up to head into a store and you spot the SALE section. BONUS! And there's an extra 30% off sign! DOUBLE BONUS!! Your heart starts racing...palms begin to sweat...you look to see who you have to push out of the way to get there...It takes you a little bit of time to sift through all of the unorganized sale items...but you finally find an article of clothing you like and MUST HAVE! You start searching through all of the sizes because why would people ever put things back in their designated area (I'll admit, I am definitely guilty of this!)...and you keep looking...and you keep looking...and you begin to lose hope! You realize that the only size left in the khaki capris you want are "0"...are you kidding me?! I don't think I even wore that size before I hit puberty. Not to mention that they don't have like one pair of capris in a size zero, but like 10!

Does this drive anyone else nuts? Why must clothing companies make so many waif sizes because it appears they have a difficult time selling all of them! Needless to say, it was not a great shopping experience! I was annoyed.

Change.

2009-07-16T12:52:00.003-04:00

As you can see, I needed a change, which roots back to my indecisiveness. I think I just needed to simplify the colors. I know the black and white border is very popular, so I did have reservations about using it. But, it was definitely one of the best b&w ones that I found. So, please just take it as a compliment if you are using the same background! Also, thanks to my wonderful husband who helped create the new blog header. I hope you enjoy the new look as much as I do!!

Happy Birthday.

2009-07-15T17:31:00.002-04:00

Today is my husband's 27th birthday...boy does that sound old to me!! In honor of his special day, I thought I'd brag about 27 things I appreciate about him (in no particular order, of course).

1. He doesn't hog the tv remote...he's willing to watch my shows.

2. He's one of the most selfless people I know.

3. He's a modern-day Good Samaritan...he'll lend a hand to anyone that needs it.

4. He balances my personality.

5. He loves students...and they love him!

6. He's truly honest with me...he'll let me know if he doesn't like something.

7. He'll give me a bite of his snickers.

8. He's funny...and can always make me laugh when I'm upset!

9. He talks to anyone...he can work a room like no other!

10. He values my opinion.

11. He's willing to eat the food I cook.

12. He will definitely make a great DAD someday!

13. He cares about people...to the point that it hurts.

14. His shaved head...I love the way it feels.

15. His passion for others to know God.

16. He's a southern gentleman...Yes maam and yes sir!

17. He's a great role model...as a leader for students and adults.

18. He always sees the best in people.

19. He's has a servant's heart...he never looks for recognition.

20. He has great style...aside from all the t-shirts!!

21. He's trustworthy.

22. He's definitely a dreamer...I have to reel him back in sometimes.

23. He's a good dancer.

24. He doesn't complain.

25. He's always pleasant to be around.

26. He's just an overall, likeable guy!

27. He challenges me to be a better person.

I'm so grateful for your life and how you positively affect all you come in contact with. I hope you feel very special on your birthday! You deserve it! I love you, babe!!

Commuting.

2009-07-14T21:39:00.004-04:00

Yeah, I'm excited for my new job. But, I am not anticipating the daily commute. My office is 30 miles one way, not to mention the Northern Virginia traffic that I will inevitably hit in the morning and in the afternoon. One other thing that stinks is that the back roads (which supposedly are to be quicker) are only 2 lanes. So, if I get behind someone slow, I'm stuck behind someone slow! I experienced this exact scenario on the way home from my 2nd interview and was going crazy!

I recently checked out some books on cd from the library, hoping that will pass the time. But, I just wanted to hear from you all to see how many make a daily commute and how you stay sane in the process. It's nice to know you're not alone sometimes.

Need Some Comedic Relief?

2009-07-13T16:15:00.006-04:00

Do you ever start watching tv shows when they are airing reruns on TBS or any other channel for that matter? I never seem to get into shows until they are in syndication. Well, my hubby and I started watching King of Queens with Kevin James, Leah Remini, and Jerry Stiller a few years ago... and we haven't stopped. It is absolutely hysterical!! It is our afternoon tradition to watch a few episodes before we start dinner.

It sometimes reminds me of our relationship, minus the overweight husband and live-in father. My husband would agree that I can definitely mimic the attitude of Carrie Heffernan, while I think he can be equally as funny as Doug.

I'll leave you with a quote to ponder from today's episode...

Carrie: "Are you just incredibly lazy or do you just hate me?"

Doug: "Uhhhh...60/40"

If you are looking for some serious comedy, I highly recommend you check it out!

A Good Ending.

2009-07-10T18:58:00.005-04:00

I wasn't having the best of weeks, and I was totally guilty of having a pity party (Not one of my finer moments). But one phone call changed my mood...

I am no longer unemployed!!!

My new position is a student advisor for an online university, which is fitting since my career aspirations include being a school counselor. This will definitely help me get my feet wet! Also, I have the opportunity of getting a master's degree for FREE!! How awesome is that!! Well, I start in 2 weeks, so I had better enjoy sleeping in,relaxing, and doing whatever for the next few weeks before I'm brought back to reality.

This Week...

2009-07-09T14:02:00.005-04:00

Do you ever just have a bum week? This is it for me. Here are a few frustrating things that have happened this week (just need to vent)...

Since I don't have a scale to accurately price ebay shipping, I lost money on a couple items this week.

The post office lost one of my packages and didn't honor the insurance I purchased...so I'm out some money.

It's Thursday, and I've been waiting patiently all week to hear back from a job that I had 2 interviews with.

My hubby and I felt a little lonely because we haven't really met any couple friends our age around here.

As I'm about to hit my last stop of errands for the day, I grabbed a quick bite to eat. As I bit into the burger, mustard and ketchup spilled right down the front of my white shirt.

I regret putting my foot in my mouth a few times this week.

We got a free Red-Box movie, except I picked a dud and ended up turning it off halfway through.

We overspent on our budget, so we have to cut back until we get paid next.

I went in for a much overdo oil change and came out with an $1100 estimate (definitely getting a second opinion!).

Well, I know it's not great to dwell on the negative, so here are a few positives this week...

My husband and I got in touch with a realtor to help jump start our house hunting adventures!

I finally attempted the 3-mile Walk Away the Pounds workout and successfully completed it!

I talked with my dad on the phone yesterday...I always enjoy hearing from family!

We did meet a younger couple at the wedding over the weekend that lives pretty close to us. Hopefully, we can hook up soon!

We submitted our application to be on TLC's "My First Place!" Keep your fingers crossed!

The sun has been shining EVERY day this week! Yeah for summer!

How's your week been going? Thanks for listening.

Congrats Sean & Heidi!

2009-07-07T15:08:00.015-04:00

What a weekend. We had such a fun time, and it was a beautiful wedding. I was able to hit up the local outlet mall, visit Saris for some chocolate and ice cream, shared many laughs with some friends, and had great weather. I thought I'd just share the events in pictures. Enjoy!

Rehearsal Dinner-I ordered Prime Rib...didn't really understand that it comes really red and not cooked...so I asked the stuffy waitress to "nuke" it for me. Classy, I know!

Isn't he such a stud? You know you're good looking

when you can rock a canary yellow!

Heidi's dress was stunning! I couldn't keep my eyes off of it!

The BEST part of the reception...the cake!

The happy couple!

Gorgeous centerpieces!

Friends!

Dancing with the hubby!

A sporadic limbo broke out with none other but my hubby!

CONGRATULATIONS SEAN AND HEIDI!

Thanks for including us in your special day!

4th of July Weekend.

2009-07-02T12:54:00.006-04:00

The hubby and I are headed here this weekend...

for one of his best friend's wedding!

Congrats Sean and Heidi!

I am so excited for a weekend away in Pittsburgh. Not to mention, that I ALWAYS enjoy weddings! Good food, good company, good dancing...I'll definitely have to take lots of pics and update you on Monday. Hope you all have a fabulous 4th of July weekend!

Walk Away the Pounds Update.

2009-07-01T09:21:00.002-04:00

So, I've been working out to these videos over the past month. I'm not going to lie...I haven't done them everyday...and there definitely was a dry spell. Overall, I really, really like them!

I can feel my heart rate up, but yet I'm not sweating uncontrollably, which is what I love! The weights do add a definite kick to the workout. I have dropped a few pounds since I've started them, but it's probably hard to gauge if it's solely from the videos or cutting back on my food intake. However, I really enjoy the feeling of putting on a pair of capris that were a little snug, and now they fit much better!

I have only done the 1 and 2 mile workouts so far. I guess it's probably time to attempt the 3 mile. I think I'm just a little intimidated. I'm sure it will be ok, though.

Overall, I highly recommend this DVD set.

Living Outside the Margins.

2009-06-28T22:32:00.008-04:00

The above list of words are definitely not characteristics I want someone to use to describe my life. No one wakes up one day and thinks to themselves, "I think I truly desire to be uninspiring and typical!" Yet, I am SO fearful of taking risks...not like skydiving or bunge jumping. But, trying new things that I possibly may not be good at scares me half to death. Even as I've been job-hunting, I disqualify myself pretty quickly as I'm reading through job descriptions. It's like I don't give myself enough credit!

I know it's not uncommon for people to have a fear of failure or rejection. That makes sense. But, why does fear have to be so paralyzing sometimes? Instead of living an exciting, adventurous life, I choose to live a boring, dull, mediocre life because I remain comfortable in my own little box I've created for myself. Ick!

I spoke in our youth group tonight about this very topic, and I was definitely speaking to myself as much as to the students. I spoke about Joshua and how he was chosen to take over Moses' leadership role. I can only imagine how excited and nervous he was to fill such BIG shoes! I mean, Moses was like the main man...no prophet had ever compared to him. If that were me, I know I'd be playing the comparison game and quickly start to doubt my own abilities!

One of my main points was that risk requires courage. I believe I lack a little in the courage department. I wish I could just go to the store and buy me a bag of courage. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. Although, I thank God for his promises to me that in my weakness, he is strong. Also, that he will never give me more than I can handle, even though it may feel like a heck of a lot of weight on my shoulders. Those promises give me the hope I need to endure.

Ultimately, I truly desire that my life will be characterized by the word picture below...which means I have to start taking a few RISKS and stepping out of my comfort zone! Let's just say, I'm a work in progress, and I'm excited for the possibilities along the journey!

Got Piles?

2009-06-24T17:00:00.003-04:00

Do any of you have the same issue with your husband? Some things are clean and some are dirty. But, honestly, how can you tell? This pile of clothes is in our bedroom, but he also feels the need to leave his mark on the spare bedroom too!

When we were first married, I was so kind and loving that I washed, folded and even put away his clothes. He's an only child, so he's used to this kind of behavior. Normally, I would drop hints like, "You're welcome for doing the laundry!" to get a thank you out of him. My friend quickly kicked my butt into gear. She stated that if I'm doing everything for him now, what's it going to be like for me when we start having kids? I'll still be picking up after him, as well as the kiddos. That thought made me turn a new leaf. I still wash and fold, but now HE has to put his own clothes away (It's a small step, I know!).

The only problem...my husband HATES putting clothes away. It first started off with me leaving his folded clothes in the laundry basket. Well, he would just pull things out of the basket when he wanted to wear it. So, then I tried, leaving the neatly folded clothes on his side of the bed thinking he'd have to put his things away because otherwise he wouldn't be able to go to sleep on his side. Boy, was I wrong! After several prompts to remind him to put his clothes away, I'd usually get the, "I'll do it later." When he would head to bed, he just placed the piles of clean clothes on the floor, which eventually turns into the picture above! Who knew getting your husband to do one simple task would be so draining?! I can only imagine what it's like picking up after kids.

I LOVE Summer.

2009-06-23T17:44:00.002-04:00

Aside from the fact that my husband is gone all week with the students at camp, I've had a great week thus far.

I laid out by the pool the past two days and did get some color, even though it may be more red then tan at this point!
I received 2 phone calls regarding interviews for a couple jobs this week! Yeah, finally!
I made myself a chocolate, banana smoothie that was delightful!
I chatted with a good friend.
I have the bed ALL TO MYSELF!
And the weather is going to be great the rest of the week too!

Hope you all are having a great week so far!

Question.

2009-06-22T23:25:00.003-04:00

I feel like Dwight Shrute when stating, "Question." What can I say, I enjoy The Office. But seriously, what are the random links being put into my posts that were definitely not put there by me? They are green and underlined twice...I've actually noticed them on some of your blogs too, except when you click on them, they don't take you to a previous post or link picked out by you. What's going on? Did Blogger cut an advertising deal or something?

Soliciting Suggestions.

2009-06-21T21:51:00.003-04:00

Okay ladies...I need your help. I've tried multiple skin cleansers and lotions over the years and cannot seem to find the right fit. I have fairly dry skin and am somewhat acne-prone (more blackheads than anything...I'm embarrassed even admitting that). It seems that the older I get, the more problem I have with my skin, which is completely annoying!

I've tried Proactive and hated how it completely dried out my face and made it flaky. I've used the Clinique 3-step system and didn't see much improvement in my skin. My mom also bought me Mary-Kay to try and I wasn't thoroughly impressed. Now, I've used several drugstore brands like Dove, Oil of Olay, and am currently using Biore, but it appears that they just smell good and don't really take care of problem skin.

So, I'm wondering what you use and would love to hear your reviews on certain products. I'm tired of feeling like a teenager when it comes to my skin...it needs a SERIOUS intervention!

Comment Issue.

2009-06-20T20:10:00.002-04:00

So, I was starting to take things a little personal that I wasn't receiving any comments. I kept thinking to myself, "Maybe no one really wants to read what I'm writing or it's not interesting to leave a comment." Well, I received an email from a nice blogger letting me know that there is indeed an issue with my comment option. I guess it would make it difficult to leave a comment for me if there wasn't a box that popped up. Therefore, I will try and resolve the issue here soon. I am hoping that I don't have to change the template and re-work everything! That might be a pain. I appreciate those of you that have been reading and leaving me comments. I've been having a lot of fun in the blogging world.